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My mom just told my grandfather is in a better place today.
I mean he was 90 years old. He had a good life, but it gets to me.
He was the only parent my dad has left and he didn't get to see him for a year, so he never really got to say goodbye to him or at least one last hello. &that is what really gets to me. /:
So, any positive thoughts to make me feel better. This is making me really depressed.
Aww.....I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you feel better hun. Things well get better soon. You're not alone. You know that. You still have a family that loves you.You still have friends that care about you. Thats all that you could hope for. Keep positive thoughts out there, and wipe your tears away. It's going to be okay, Dania.
Last edited by WoRdLoVer; 02-07-2012 at 05:50 PM.
Thankk you wordlover. It means a lot to me
I know the feeling of losing a few loved ones without saying goodbye. It does hurt, it hurts a lot. There have been times when I've asked myself why and even looked for a reason as to why they were taken from me. It is hard to let the people you love go. But I've been asked by my elders if I knew what my loved ones want from me. And their response has always been to think of the good times and be happy that they are no longer in pain. They would want me to be happy and to go on remembering them for all the good things that they've done in my life and others. It's even hard for me at times to think about the good times without shedding a few tears.
Stay strong and it's okay to cry. There is nothing wrong with shedding tears every so often.
i dont really have much resentment when i see someone die. just the build up of emotions tend to come whenever i see others around me with such an issue.
i've had family die, sure, but...neve really felt feeling for the ones that died. itd probably sadden me if my grandpa died . he's one of the few that i like..
well, to get back to the matter of importance, if you ever need someone to talk to, im not the best, but i offer myself. ;c
Last edited by MyKnifeToYourThroat; 02-07-2012 at 06:38 PM.
thanks guys, you are certainly amazing.
@Snowy, I COMPLETELY understand that feeling, it's like you got inside of my head. & it is true that is why I'm mostly trying to keep calm and positive and only think of the good times, i know he's in a better place now and he'll always be watching over us along with my grandma.
@40k, thank's for trying haha (x i usually don't show any emotions at the moment that it happens, only at the funeral but i dunno this time, it got to me. Mostly because of my dad actually.
But thank you guys, like i said i really appreciate it, i'm glad to know i'm not alone. (:
You're very welcome. If you ever need a friend to talk to or just someone that will listen to you, I'll be here as well. =)
oo. its a love triangle. i like where this is going. gigity.Originally Posted by Snowy Owl
Thank you Snowy. It means a lot. (:
bahah, she's a girl D;
i know i know.
twas a joke is all.
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